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Campus Confessional tackles dating doubts, rejection and summer struggles

Can you tell when someone genuinely likes you? In the latest episode of Campus Confessional, Thalassa, Michela and Kevin discuss dating, break-ups, rejection and making the most of a summer without travel.

‘If they wanted to, they would.’ It is one of the internet’s favourite relationship sayings, and it immediately divides opinion in the latest episode of Campus Confessional.

Thalassa opens the discussion by arguing that if someone truly likes you, they will make an effort to spend time with you. Michela agrees, saying that genuine interest should be visible through actions rather than excuses. Kevin takes a more nuanced view, pointing out that not everyone has the confidence, time or circumstances to express their feelings in the same way.

The conversation soon shifts from romance to summer plans after a listener admits they cannot afford a holiday this year. Rather than focusing on expensive trips abroad, the hosts encourage students to look for alternatives closer to home. Taking on a summer job, spending time with friends or exploring local places can still make for a memorable break without draining your bank account.

Another confession surprises the presenters: someone admits they regularly stalk other people’s Spotify profiles because it reveals ‘what type of person they are’. While they find the habit amusing, the trio question whether someone’s playlists really say that much about who they are. Kevin points out that he often listens to sad music despite being perfectly happy, while Michela admits Spotify has become one of her favourite music platforms after switching from Apple Music.

Relationships remain the central theme throughout the episode. One listener confesses they know they should end their relationship but cannot bring themselves to do it. The presenters are careful not to tell anyone what decision to make, but they agree that staying in a relationship simply because breaking up is difficult rarely ends well. Honest communication, they say, should always come first.

The discussion naturally leads to another question: how do you deal with rejection? While nobody enjoys hearing ‘no’, the hosts encourage listeners not to see rejection as proof that they will never find love. Instead, they describe it as redirection, reminding students that compatibility works both ways and that not being someone’s choice does not diminish your own value.

The episode ends on a more personal note when the hosts answer a compliment from a listener, who asks what insecurities they still have despite appearing so confident on camera. From physical insecurities to fears of being misunderstood, the conversation offers a reminder that confidence and insecurity often exist side by side. Even people who seem self-assured are still figuring things out.

With only one episode left this season, Campus Confessional continues to balance serious conversations with humour, making it easy to recognise a little of yourself in every dilemma.