Meet other cultures, right here in Groningen

Abroad, we eagerly immerse ourselves in other cultures. At home, we are often less curious. A pity, says Maaike, because every conversation can become a journey far away.

These days, we travel all over the world, in search of beautiful places and meaningful encounters. We immerse ourselves in other cultures. Yet once back home, we are often a little less open minded; some people, though not all, find other cultures difficult.

In Groningen, there are many international students. Sit on a terrace and the staff may address you in English. English is the language used in ACLO classes. In supermarkets you hear it too, and anyone who listens carefully on campus will often hear students speaking English among themselves.

A Spanish student once said: you are a very kind Dutch woman. It was both a compliment and an insult at the same time.

Some people believe that if you live in the Netherlands, you should adapt to Dutch culture. But which culture, exactly? One of stamppot, directness, a standard ‘meat veg potatoes’ dinner, punctuality, queue jumping for the bus, rain and constant complaining? Also typically Dutch: spending large sums on expensive flights, away from here.

A cultural encounter, however, can take place just around the corner. I enjoy learning where international students come from and what their lives were like before studying in Groningen. I am also always curious about how they experience life here, what they think of the Netherlands and, in particular, of the Dutch.

Recently, a Spanish student told me: you are a very kind Dutch woman. It was both a compliment and an insult. I understood what she meant. The Dutch are divided. Some are open to other cultures, while others prefer to surround themselves with Dutch people. As long as there is no discrimination or racism, there is nothing inherently wrong with that.

I cannot imagine how anyone could study in another country while remaining within their comfort zone.

Every culture has something unique: a different temperament, a different way of thinking, different values and perspectives. International students bring their own ways of working and studying, and a distinct energy. Often, they are used to stepping outside their comfort zone. After all, it is hard to imagine studying in another country without doing so. It is precisely this combination of courage and background that makes international students so intriguing.

During a short conversation in a sports class, I already find myself making a small journey to Asia, South America or elsewhere in Europe. Other cultures broaden your horizon. And for that, you do not have to travel far. Step outside your own bubble from time to time. I wish you a good journey, or rather, an interesting encounter. Right here, just around the corner.

Photo: Tábata Vilches Maldonado